Friday, 25 January 2013

Interpersonal Conflict

It was the first day of 2013 and just like any other New Year; I would go to the barber and get a haircut because receiving a haircut symbolises a brand new start. As expected, the small barber shop that I frequent was packed to the hilt.

While waiting for my turn, I heard a commotion behind me. I didn’t want to be a nosy parker but the noise was so loud that I could overhear exactly what they were saying. It was a disagreement between a mother and a daughter and apparently, the daughter had gotten a few shapes tattooed on her right shoulders and was also caught smoking. Clearly, you could see that her mother was mad. Her mother was chastising her openly in the public. She also demanded her daughter to remove those tattoos at once. The nasty lecture, which obviously fell on deaf ears, got her daughter so riled up and in no time at all, it had escalated into an exchange of vulgarities and finger-pointing.

I could see that the initial intention of her mother was meant to be good but her approach (hmmm…) really need to be overhauled.

Food for thought

If you were her mother, what would you do so that you could impose your idea (like you should stop smoking) and at the same time, respect your child’s rights and freedoms?